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IMPROVE YOUR LIFE, HAVE A CHILD, MAYBE EVEN TWO
“We are changing our lives for children who don’t care” As you may know from my previous posts, they are all laced with sarcasm and reflect the reality of the events. I don’t make things up; I write based on my own experiences, I don’t slander anyone, and I don’t use aggressive comments. All the stories described are intended to evoke positive emotions in you, and above all, laughter.Therefore, the following post is true, but written with a great sense of humor. It was created after I heard the words from loved ones: “You wanted to have a child, so don’t complain.” How has my life improved since having children?…
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DIFFERENT WAYS TO SPEND WEEKEND AS A PARENT
“Your kids don’t know what a weekend is. But neither do you, because you’re a parent.” Breakfast serving and cleaning assistant A weekend for me shouldn’t be called a weekend, but a part-time job, and I don’t mean my actual part-time job as a blogger. https://littlepuzzlesandme.com/how-to-know-without-words-that-you-are-a-mother/ My weekend started with waking up around 7:30 because the kids wanted breakfast. And that was the least of my responsibilities. In the living room, there was still a blanket construction site, a house half of which belonged to Dorothy and the other half to Patrick. Patrick also had drills and all the necessary tools on his side, and on Dorothy’s side, the entire…
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HOW TO RESPOND APPROPRIATELY TO THE EMOTIONS OF OUR BABIES?
When I came across a video online about the origins and causes of children’s nervous breakdowns, the image of the child in the video stuck in my head for a week. SADNESS The film is short but incredibly moving. The first episode takes place at home, in the morning. From the very beginning, the boy is rushed to school by his parents. The most overused word they use is “quick.” This applies not only to situations where it might be used, such as “walk quickly, the car is waiting,” but also to any morning activity, such as eating quickly, drinking quickly, and dressing quickly. This film perfectly shows the emotions…
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IS IT EASIER WITH CHILDREN OVER 3 YEARS OLD?
“When you hear all day that everyone is doing something better than you, and in the evening you’re the one they call to give them a goodnight kiss.” Last weekend, I thought: Is life easier for parents with children over 3 years old? There will be as many answers as there are parents. From my perspective, as a mother of two children (my daughter is 5, and my son is 8), I can honestly say that this stage of childhood is not as difficult for me as it was when my children were less than 3 years old. Of course, there are other situations, ideas, and problems of older children,…
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THE NEW MOM’S BODY REVOLUTION AND MORE UNSPEAKABLE FACTS
“Every mom is a superhero with the power to find humor in the face of disaster.” MOM FUNCTION Today I am writing about person who have achieved the title of Mother. Newborn moms who do not know if they are fulfilling themselves in this particular role devote their time to make children see that they are there and can count on them at any time.I guess all new Moms had to listen to or read, sooner or later, out of whole cloth – parenting advice, pregnancy advice, advice about the newborn, advice on breastfeeding, infant diet, etc. Less or more useful. And to remind myself and not to forget, I…
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IS THERE A SMOOTH WAY TO GET KIDS OUT OF THE HOUSE?
“If one morning with the kids didn’t work out, don’t worry, there are still many trials and mental breakdowns ahead.” I recently heard from a friend that she was telling her daughter to hurry up and leave Nursery, because Lilly’s other daughter had an art workshop in 10 minutes. And when she refused to put on her shoes for the fifth time, my friend gave up and Anna went outside without them. As a mother of two young children (ages 4 and 7), I experience this type of trauma very often. I’d be happier if the parents around me didn’t hide their true, everyday experiences with their children. And if…
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A VOICE FROM THE HEART TO ALL PARENTS
I have kept this text in drafts for a long time. I returned to these entries many times, added new ones, and even more times the created uniquely sentences melted my heart. These are very simple notes, very honest, and probably most parents go through this. My text is filled with basic and sincere parenting experiences that we all know, but parents don’t talk about it out loud and don’t spread the word about it. When you are ready my dear parents, this post is especially for you. DEAR PARENTS, I know how difficult it is to stay calm, explain the same rules over and over again, and soothe children.…
