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EXPECTATIONS VERSUS REALITY OF A NEW MOM
“Behind every smile, there’s a mother who has cried in silence, feeling the weight of the world on her shoulders”. In this post, I wanted to reach out to NEW MOM who are bravely experiencing their first days at home with their little ones this holiday season. My heart and soul are with you. I know how difficult it is for you to move around with your baby at your breast. I know your stitches hurt, and you sleep less than two hours. It will all pass. I don’t know if the beginnings of motherhood were idyllic for any of you, but for me, they weren’t. https://littlepuzzlesandme.com/nobody-asked-me/ I remember how…
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THE UGLY TRUTH ABOUT WORKING MOTHER’S SACRIFICE
“Be the kind of mom who makes other moms want to be on your team” I thought that after maternity, the beginnings were only difficult and that the lack of sleep and fatigue would quickly disappear. Unfortunately, after 6 months in a new job, it is just as difficult. Only my distance from silly texts about mothers who can’t keep up at work is much better. I am mentally stronger than in the first few weeks and I am already well organized. Also I am forgetful and always on the run. Below is my new job survival list: FIRST Prepare everyone at work for the fact that you have children,…
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THE SILENCE WHEN YOU HAVE CHILDREN AND ITS CONSEQUNCES
“When you had a busy day destroying your parent’s house.” I will tell you a few moments of silence that happened to me during motherhood and which taught me that silence with children always means danger. https://littlepuzzlesandme.com/ordinary-mornings-by-boss-baby/ The first story of dangerous silence Dorothy was about a year old when she found my makeup bag and applied the brown eye shadow to herself, to the bathroom rug, and to the bathtub. I didn’t have time to clean up, because I was already late after washing Dorothy. Around 2 p.m. I got a call from my husband why the whole bathroom is covered in poop. The second story of dangerous silence…
