“The day your baby is born is the day your life changes, and it’s up to you what changes you make.” In this post, I will go back far in my memories, to the first birth of my baby. It was 5 years ago when Patrick was born. We lived in England at the time, but this post is not about the country and place, but the hard search for mother-mates. And it can be funny that I thought it wouldn’t be a problem because I became a mom at the same time as my best friends. But that was the biggest problem – mom’s brain – that’s it. Why all my…