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WILL BEING A MOTHER RUIN ALL WOMEN FUTURE PLANS?
“Women don’t play victims, don’t make themselves look pathetic. They stand and make life deals.” WOMEN’S CHOICES There are two important choices in our lives. We feel ready to be mothers, but as women, we also want to develop towards our own initiatives. At the same time, we want to be fulfilled at work, and as mothers, we cannot afford criticism. When our biological clock tells us that it’s time for motherhood, we already have a career path in place. https://littlepuzzlesandme.com/do-you-have-the-right-to-have-some-good-for-yourself/ BACK TO WORK Even while on maternity leave, in my case I was waiting to return to work. I wanted to meet people with whom I could communicate normally,…
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WHEN YOUR BODY, MIND AND NERVES HAVE ENOUGH!
“Taking care of myself doesn’t mean me first, it means me too.” L.R. KNOST NERVES Working in a corporation where every week there’s a new project to be done so fucking quickly and the deadline kicks your butt again. When you hear every week that this is the last time we’ll work overtime and you stop believing it because you know it’s bullshit. There is also work waiting for you at home. Your children are waiting to be picked up from school. Do homework with your children and feed your children. Then, in such a drastically magical way, you no longer have a minute for yourself. You don’t have time…
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DO YOU HAVE THE RIGHT TO HAVE SOME GOOD FOR YOURSELF?
“We expect mothers to work like – they don’t have children and we expect mothers to raisechildren as if they don’t work.” I heard an interview with a working mother on the radio. The interviewers asked her about her career path and priorities and she answered: HER CAREER “A long time ago, I was preparing a list of priorities. As a young employee of the company, I put working for the company first on my list. Over the next years of working in this company, I gained experience and developed my career. I devoted a lot of time to this company and thanks to my perseverance, I was promoted to…
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THE UGLY TRUTH ABOUT WORKING MOTHER’S SACRIFICE
“Be the kind of mom who makes other moms want to be on your team” I thought that after maternity, the beginnings were only difficult and that the lack of sleep and fatigue would quickly disappear. Unfortunately, after 6 months in a new job, it is just as difficult. Only my distance from silly texts about mothers who can’t keep up at work is much better. I am mentally stronger than in the first few weeks and I am already well organized. Also I am forgetful and always on the run. Below is my new job survival list: FIRST Prepare everyone at work for the fact that you have children,…
