CHANGES ARE PAINFUL, BUT WE NEED THEM.

Everything changes for a reason. Sometimes it hurts. Sometimes it’s difficult. But in the end, everything works out better.

It will be a story about me and some drastic changes in my life caused by my previous job.

I don’t know why, I felt very bad when I lost my job six months ago?

BOSS, RULER, SADIST

24/7 telephone support and problem solving did not affect the boss’s positive attention. In constant poverty, he always found something that I forgot and something that he kept reminding me about for months.

Finally, after several arguments and disappointing conversations. After a year of proving my point, my eyes were opened. I realized that I could no longer stay in this toxic environment and destroy my values. I resigned from my job.

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GOOD

After I left, I decided to take a long break to look for a new job. My vacation didn’t last long. Word spread among the people I worked with about how my boss treated me.

Subsequent people in higher positions made several phone calls regarding me and the stage of inviting me for job interviews began.

I wasn’t surprised that I returned to work quickly. I would probably feel empty after more than two weeks of vacation.

BETTER

However, a big surprise for me was how people from last place remember me and recommend me, even despite adversities from my exboss. A boss who tried with all his strength and contacts to prevent me from finding a new job and gave me bad references.

I always believe that good comes back to good people and shit comes back to shitty people. Back then, I didn’t expect that my karma would come faster and that I would now be working with such wonderful people. 

So even though I experienced so much trauma from losing my job, it didn’t stay with me for long. New responsibilities, new people around me quickly show me that I am in the right place at the right time.

THE BEST

When I heard from my previous great employees:

Wow, you look great!

This job suits you!

You’re no longer glued to your phone!

Well, you finally laugh!

I didn’t expect people to notice it this far. I didn’t feel like that at my last job. I sacrificed a lot because I am not a person who gives up in a short time. I struggled in this company for a year to improve myself as a good supervisor, but my boss still considered it weak.

 One thing I noticed after changing jobs that really showed me the difference was my sleep. After a year, I fall asleep again without dreams about work, I don’t wake up sweaty and with a headache. And most importantly, I see happiness in my family. I will always fight for it. I am a woman who fights for her rights and self-esteem and this is my main life goal.