MY LOVE, MY CHILDREN AND BIT OF PASSION
“When you see fruit and think about sex, it means that your lack of sexual pleasure has exceeded all norms.”
Why is this happening?
The causes of not having sex may be different in each relationship, but if you love each other and think about each other every second and every day, there are just a few tiny reasons. As always, I will present my private situation, below.
FIRST REASON
– No time –
We are on the run all day, if not with children, then at work. During lunch breaks, we call each other and plan a quiet, lovely evening. I am thinking about which of my collections of underwear I will choose for the evening, maybe the red one that I haven’t had for a long time, but will I still fit into it?
And my husband will choose our favorite wine in a local bottle, as always.
Big dreams, right?
Only such evenings mostly do not take place, because a quiet evening turns into an evening from the cartoon “Wile E. Coyote and the Road Runner.” It is obvious that in this case, Wile E. Coyote is us – The Parents and a road runner, in my case two runners, are our children.
The funny thing is that after a bath, after reading a fairy tale, children fall asleep, but only for a while, especially the youngest daughter. Sometimes we even managed to start the first stage of sexual arousal. Sometimes we even tried a glass of wine, and sometimes, like horny rabbits, we took a quick shower and went straight to business. It didn’t turn out the way we dreamed it would, but we did it.
SECOND REASON
– Feeling overtired –
This feeling is familiar to all of you, it does not have to be overtired after work, it can be fatigue after home chores, or exhaustion after a day with children. I know these little monsters need us the most right now, our care and our love, but we give our best.
However, we must remember our relationship and our love and needs are still just as important as before the children, only our bodies are more tired. I love romantic evenings with my husband, and evenings for two. But happened several times that my husband went to shower and I fell asleep while waiting. Another time the baby woke up and I went out to check in and cuddle the baby but when I came back my husband was snoring. Best of all, I went to calm the baby down and I fell asleep in bed with him. Luckily the next day my husband and I laugh at this situation, but the humor is always good.
After all, there will be sex someday, right?
THIRD REASON
– Children around –
This is about the possibility that sex doesn’t just exist in the evening when the chipmunks are asleep. We can use it ourselves during the day.
But when during the day?
We work during the week and we are with the kids on the weekends. Grandparents usually care for one child, which is better than having one child at home instead of several, but sex is out of the question. I’m not so scandalized and so horny that I will do it in front of a baby. In one of the posts, I mentioned that I can’t even poop in front of a baby, let alone try sexual games with my husband. https://littlepuzzlesandme.com/ordinary-mornings-by-boss-baby/
In any case, we managed to make love once, without the kids. My husband got sick, the kids were at school, and I went home for lunch. Then instead of the fridge door, I opened the bedroom door, where my husband was taking a nap. At that moment, we looked at each other with the same excited eyes.
Can’t believe he had the power to have sex with a fever, a stuffy nose, and a cough, but sex was wonderful, more sweating but our only one, unrepeated. I will never forget that silence (apart from our moans) and no one called from around the corner: “Mommy, Mommy”. I came back to work disheveled and with an empty stomach, but it was worth it. It was also great for the next few days to watch my husband secretly smile and somehow recover faster.
This showed us that despite the disease, we still have the strength and time for sex. We were able to show that our passion, was still unique and wonderful.
And finally, we can say that our family mission is successfully carried out.
